Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

HOW TO CUT YOUR WEDDING GUEST LIST!!!



Creating a guest list can cause complete chaos. Whether it's your mom pushing you to invite all her neighbors or your fiance insisting to cut your coworkers from the list, you're bound to come across some angst in your guest list planning. But not to worry. There is hope. If you follow these top tips, you'll minimize the madness and whittle down your list to the best-case scenario.


Stay Mum

Of course you're going to announce your engagement to close friends and family members, but because they're the first ones who'll be invited, they're safe territory. Beyond your immediate clan, don't personally call anyone else until you know the wedding's approximate size and scope, because the first thing people are likely to ask is "When is the wedding?" That way, you can set expectations when you finally announce your news: "We're so excited -- it'll be a tiny ceremony somewhere exotic," or "My parents are springing for a blowout with everyone under the sun, so start watching airfares now!" If people know from the start that they're not likely to be invited because it's a family-only or far-flung affair, they won't be miffed when they don't find a fancy envelope in their mailbox.


Divide Seats Equally

All of the immediate family with input should be given the same number of people to invite, regardless of who's paying. What that means is that if you're having 200 guests and you and your fiance take 100 of the invites, his family should get 50 of the remaining invites and your family should get the final 50. If her folks are divorced, then each of her parents split the 50 evenly. If things work out that smoothly for you, you're lucky, but sticking with that strategy gives you a bulletproof defense against accusations of favoritism. Of course, if one of you is an only child and the other comes from a family of 20, you can reevaluate how to divvy up the numbers. If people grumble, see the next strategy about standing up to bullies.
To minimize confusion, wait to request your parents and in-law's guest lists until you've given them their target number.


Don't Be Bullied By Parents and Soon-to-be In-laws

Set and stick to boundaries. This can be tricky if one set of parents is footing the bill and demands a greater slice of the guest list. But when it comes down to it, this is your event. Sometimes it's just a matter of increasing the size of the guest list, and the parent who goes over their number of invites can pay for the overflow. But often your site caps the guest count. That means if his mom wants to invite more people (say, all of her bridge partners), either your family or you two will have to invite fewer guests. Be resolute. Explain to his mom that even though she is generously paying for the fete, this is a celebration for everyone involved, and everyone must participate on an equal footing. It may not be easy or pleasant, but if you start to bend, you're in for a tidal wave of last-minute requests.

source: http://theknot.com  

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Proposal Stories: #2

UNBELIEVABLE! I recently met these two adorable couple who recently got engaged. I was taken away of how the proposal was very well planned out. After watching this video you can immediately see how see didn't have no idea  that her fiance will propose to her.  Super cute and Super adorable!!!
Congrats Gaby and Alvaro

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

CONTESTS/ GIVEAWAYS

 Attention all couples tell me your unusual story of how you and your mate met. This WEDNESDAY at 3pm I will choose 3 finalist. The 3 finalist story will then be posted on my fanpage and the FANS will choose the best story. The story with the most "LIKES" by Friday at 8pm will WIN a $20 off gift certificate to CHI MASSAGE SPA in Fort Lauderdale. LET THE STORIES ROLL IN!!





Thursday, November 24, 2011

FREEBIES | THANKSGIVING LABELS

Having A dinner party? It's still not too late for your "Thank you for coming" labels. I have attached free labels to upload and automatically print!!!
email us for PDF proof mail@upgradeeventsbyingrid.com


Monday, June 20, 2011

Wedding Invitation Etiquette-No kids Allowed!

Almost every bride and groom stumble to one thing, which is.....NO KIDS AT WEDDING! After reading blog post from Magnet Street I decided to share it with my fellow brides and fans.

You’ve decided you are not inviting children to your wedding ceremony or reception. Now, you need to let your guests know … is there an easy way to tell them?


Yes, there is. It might be one of those sticky situations in your wedding planning, but with the right wording, your wishes should be respected and your worries be put to rest.

How to communicate that children are not invited to your wedding

{without actually saying - CHILDREN ARE NOT INVITED}
- While it really isn’t ok to say NO CHILDREN on the wedding invitation, it is ok to say something like “Adults Only” or “Adults Only Reception” on the wedding invitation
- Another great option is to allow your mom and wedding party to spread the word for you.
- Don’t forget to use double envelopes to clearly communicate who is invited and who isn’t.


 Looking for polite ways to respond to questions about your reception choice? Try these:

‘We hope no offence is taken but due to budget restrictions, we are unable to invite your children.’
‘We thank you for understanding that we have chosen to invite only the family children to our wedding.’




Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Amiose + Pierre | Engagement Picture Teaser

Photographer: Affordable Pro Photo
Hair: TGI Divas

Congradulation to Amiose and Pierre! Two adorable couple that is getting married this weekend!!
Whoo hooo!! Here are a couple of Teasers...


Tuesday, September 28, 2010

HOW TO: Personalized your aisle runner

Okay, having a aisle runner  is basically a neccesity to have a beautiul wedding. Traditional brides stay on the safe end and stick to a white aisle runner while the modern brides add a little style to theirs. To save money brides are now personalizing their own aisle runner without spending that extra $40-$50.
Step One: Creating your monogram (you can create your monogram on powerpoint, paint, publisher or photoshop) print out your colored monogram and save it on your flashdrive.
Step Two : Go to your local Kinkos and have them blow up your monogram black and white at 400%(standard 36' wide runner) if you runner is smaller or wider then you can adjust the percentage according to the size of your runner.estimated $5.00
Step three: Now pull out your aisle runner  (estimated $15-$25) on flat surface and unroll it out to where you want you monogram to be (usually 5 feet) place your enlarged monogram under your aisle runner and use blue painter's tape to hold each corner of your monogram that is paralled to your aisle runner. You should be able to see your monogram through the aisle runner. note*make sure you placed cardoard under your monogram because paint will leaked through)
Step four: use a stencil to trace over your monogram and then carefully paint your monogram with your desired colors .Watch your monogram come to life! Before you remove the card board wait until it dry!
Check out images below:

Monday, June 14, 2010

SELECTING A PHOTOGRAPHER

By Alicia Williams
Cordele Photography

How to select a photographer. It's a task that a lot of couples struggle with. You want to remember your day just as it unfolded, but how much can you spend, what type of style and HOW do you ask the right questions to find the right photographer? Let me help.

 

  
First, you want to decide what kind of style you want. If you know someone that has been married recently, you might be able to look at their images and ask yourself, "Do I like these?" That can help narrow the search right there. If you love their photos, and the friend loved their photographer, the next thing is set up a time to met with that photographer. I encourage clients to meet with photographers to see if they like their personality, their products, price and approach to photographing a wedding. You don't have to meet in person, a simple phone call or video conference will do! You have to remember that the photographer (next to your wedding party and your fiance) is going to be with you 90-100% of the day. You want to make sure you like them and that you get along with them. If you don't get along in your initial meeting and you don't have any chemistry you may not get the photos you want. You want to have a photographer that can interact with you naturally and makes you smile naturally.

 
As for selecting the style of photography you want. There are three types of styles I like to put photography into. The first style is Traditional (very posed) a lot of formal photos, set shots (i.e boutonniere being pinned on, bride putting garter on, etc) Shots that are staged or set up tend to fall into the Traditional catagory.

  
Then there is the new modern style of photography called "photojournalism". It shows the wedding day unfolding in a story. There is very little interaction between the bride and groom and the photographer. True photojournalists won't direct you at all and won't have ANY posed shots. They observe the day as it happens recording moments without moving subjects for better light, or recreating moments.

 
The last style is Documentary/candid/mix. Now, some people will say documentary photography is photojournalism. In my book, documentary photography records the day with little interaction, but there are posed photos from the day. This is a style that a lot of my clients want to come in for. They want the pretty posed shots but they also don't want the entire day full of posing. They want a mix of styles, and clients want some interaction and direction from the photographer. In this style of photography, the photographer will move you to better light and will give some direction.

 
Then there is price. Photography prices run the gamet. You can pay $500.00 to upwards of $15,000 for photography. Is there really a difference? Yes and no.

 
First you have to look at the photographer and the experience they have. How long have they been shooting weddings? If they are new to the business, they may have a lower price point so they can start to build their portfolio. When you sit down to meet with a photographer, you should probably know how long they have been shooting weddings. Shooting weddings is very different than shooting say Nature or Sports Photography. Someone might take great nature photographs, but with the high level of stress and situations a wedding brings, will they be able to handle it? Are they able to react to the different problems that arise on a wedding day that are unforeseen. Wedding Photographers should really be able to react and work with any situation they are given. They should have back up equipment and insurance.

  
Once you have established the length of time you are comfortable with a photography being a wedding photography, you can then get to the heart of what should matter. The years of experience someone has, the training they have gone through, the type of equipment they work with, etc. All these things will be reflected in the price you pay. Another factor in price is how many hours you want to hire someone and how many photographers are they bringing. A big misconception in wedding photography is that you are hiring someone for 6-8 hours and that's all you are paying them for. In most cases photographers work 40-80 hours on ONE wedding. Then you have to factor in the product you are getting in your package. Are you just getting coverage? If you're on a tight budget, buying coverage alone will keep the cost down. Are you getting the disc of images? Are the images straight out of the camera or is each photo individually enhanced? (Called Finished Proofs). You also have to factor in the insurance they carry, the computers they have to buy and upkeep, the cameras, the hard drives, the office equipment, paying staff. All the things that bring their business to the level it is at, is paid for by a percentage of what you pay them. Someone just starting out is going to be on the lower end of the price scale than someone that's been in business for 20 years and has a staff of 10 people. People that work out of their homes may have lower prices than someone who owns a store front space. Buyer beware!In photography, sometimes you do get what you pay for. If something is so cheap it's too good to be true, you know the saying. On average if I were to get married today I would plan on paying between $2500-$7000. to get the type of photography I wanted. You have to keep in mind that you will have these photos forever and you want to make sure they are what you want, and that they are done right. Also- don't limit yourself to local photographers either! You can find someone that you love in California, that just may travel to your location.

 
Once you find a budget that you want to work with, the style, now you have to look at the photographers pictures. Are they well composed? Are they well exposed (meaning are the colors bright, are the faces well light, no harsh shadows) Do the colors look good to you? Is it the style you like? Do the colors look more blue or yellow? Are the blacks truly black or are they covered with a haze? Are the photos in focus and not fuzzy?

 
So questions to ask yourself while searching for a photographer:

 
  • Does their price fit your budget?
  • Do you like their style?
  • Do you like their personality?
  • Are their pictures in focus, good color, good exposure - etc?
  • How long have they been in business?
  • Do you get the disc of images straight out of camera or do you pay extra for finished proofs?
  • What products do you want in your package? (An Album, Disc of Images, Coverage time, )
  • Do you like the style of album?
  • Do you want a Matted Album or a modern flush mount album?
 
Now once you have hired your photographer don't give them a list you found on some website. If the photographer needs to be told to take a photo of your cake, or you walking down the aisle or a shot of your flowers, they aren't doing their job. You should only need to tell a photographer the shots that you HAVE to have that they might not take unless you tell them. Shooting the cake, flowers, couple photos are part of our job. If there is a photo you really love, be sure to remind your photographer you want it. They don't read minds. I do try to take a ring shot at every wedding, but it's not a standard shot. On the day of the wedding, I might not ever see the rings, and there for won't get the shot, but if you say "can you make sure to get a cool ring shot" I will.

Standard wedding shots for us are normally Dress Photos, Flower Photos, Cake Photos, Couple photos, Bridal Party, Family photos (we ask for a list so we don't miss any). Don't bog yourself down with a long list of formals. For each formal on your list, it can take 5 to 7 minutes to take. The biggest time waster at weddings is located people for formals. If you are proactive and organized formals should be a breeze. I can do all my formals (with a list of about 15 photos) in about 20 minutes. As long as everyone is there and ready to go.
 
Alicia Williams is owner of Cordele Photography  of Miami, FL and Boston, MA. She's been in business since October 2003. Her style is a mix of traditional and photojournalism. She has been featured in Destination Weddings and Honeymoon Magazine (2009) as well as Wedding and Portrait Photographers International newsletter, and The Knot Magazine.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

RIBBONS + WEDDING = STYLICIOUS

Maybe some people disagree but I looooove ribbons. There is so much you can do with them, so much colors and patterns that can turn one odd  thing to the "Liscious Look". but not everyone can do it ...theres only few that has the eye....the eye of the tiger to go ahead and be BOLD!...LOL Check out some pictures below.

WEDDING FLORAL CONTEST ....

Ethereal Floral Design is giving away $1000 worth of free flowers for a wedding. To enter please email your information to Etherealfd@aol.com (all entries must be sent in by May 22nd ,2010 - info includes name , wedding date , wedding location). After the person is confirmed as a contestant , anyone who would like to vote for them will have to fan their facebook page and enter your name and wedding date on their discussion thread. The contest ends on June 1st , 2010 and the winner will be announced as soon as the votes are counted.


For more information you can simply go the Ethereal Blog.

Monday, January 4, 2010

GIVEAWAY SWEEPSTAKES- "The Proposal"

Get your new year off to a stylish start with a glam look. Independent Stylist Tayana and Tiffany of Ayanat Designs is offering one fabulous bride the opportunity to win a Ayanat Designs Cuff Bracelet.



Sweepstakes Details
Contest January 4-15, 2010




(1) To enter, simply visit http://www.upgradeeventsbyingrid.com/ and click the contact us section leave a comment on this section telling us your proposal story. [1 entry per couple]. Leave your email or send your email to mail@upgradeeventsbyingrid.com . Unlimited daily entries until deadline Januarary 15 NOON EST!!! No purchase necessary to win.



Optional additional entries:



(1)Link this post in your blog/site and receive an extra 10 entries.
          Email us at mail@upgardeeventsbyingrid.com to let us know.


(2) Follow this blog and receive 15 extra entries.


(3)Shop for your favorite jewels at http://www.ayanatdesigns.com/ and receive 25 extra entries.



One (1) winner will be chosen based on their Proposal Story and Entries. The winner name will be announce at Upgrade Events blogger  on January 18, 2010. The winner will be notofied via email and ship bracelet to winner. Annonymous entries will be ignored. Bride name will be used only to notify winner.